What are the next steps once the decision to pursue an assisted living situation has been made?

Okay, you're through the hard part. You've talked it over, considered it thoroughly, and you've come to the decision that an assisted living situation is right for you or your loved one. What's next?

Start with the basics.

Location

For a variety of reasons the first concern when looking for an assisted living situation is usually geographic. Perhaps there are family members involved who plan to visit the resident and would like to have them conveniently close. The resident might be interested in living in a quiet area, with vivid scenery. Air quality can be a concern. In any case, it is a good idea to figure out where exactly you're willing to consider moving yourself or your loved one before you start your search.

Requirements

Everyone has different needs. Every family has different relationships, different financial status, etc. What works for one family can be impossible for another. Financial as well as medical and assistance requirements will be factors in your decision making. What kind of facilities are offered? What kind of care do they provide? How much and what type of care do you or your loved one need? How much are the costs? These are all questions you will need to address when choosing an assisted living situation.

The most important thing to remember is to have open conversation about it. Assisted living can be a very touchy subject. Be open and honest with your loved ones. Let them know that you are concerned first and foremost for everyone's well being. Remember that it can be very damaging to someone's self-esteem to admit that he or she can't care for himself or herself anymore.